Here's a few ideas to grease the shoot, so to speak.
Let the child's feelings be your guide. Everything we all do is a chance for personal maturity. He tied with Pete Sampras and Bjorn Borg's record when he went 8 consecutive years winning separate title every year. http://www.Silverbardgames.com/wiki/doku.php/diya_bak%C4%B1_esco_t_ofis